Friday, August 11, 2006

i've learned

i’ve been learning a lot of things about life, love, myself, my family, friends & loved ones lately.. from everything that’s been going on, i don’t regret experiencing them coz i’m learning a lot… i’ve learned that:

  • you can’t make your world revolve around one person only, because when that person’s gone, it’ll feel like your world crashed on you
  • no matter how many arguments you had with your family, no matter how much you hate each other sometimes, they’ll always be there for you & love you, no matter what, no questions asked
  • true friends doesn’t have to ask why, they’ll just be there, beside you, your shoulder to cry on or even just to give you company or make you smile
  • no matter how much advices you get from everyone, it’s only you, yourself who really knows the right thing for you & what can make you happy
  • no matter how wrong your decision could be sometimes, your friends will be there to support you
  • friends can be lovers & lovers can be friends, even best of friends
  • love isn’t always enough
  • if you truly love each other, even if you’re no longer together, the love won’t fade away, it might change, but it won’t be forgotten or it won’t just fade away
  • quote “when two people are meant to be together, it doesn’t mean they’re meant to be together NOW“
  • quote “Don’t focus on what you lost. but what remains… Don’t focus on the pain,
    but on how the pain is shaping your character. Don’t focus on the failure, but on the great lessons learned
    .”
  • another quote “Loving someone means you only want the best for him. even if it means swallowing the sad reality, that the best just isn’t you.“
  • & lastly, before you can truly love someone else, you have to learn to love yourself even more